Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Living at our Best


March 1-2, 2013 / 20 Adar 5773
Shabbat Ki Tissa
Torah: Exodus 30:11 - 34:35
Maftir: Numbers 19:1 - 19:22 | Shabbat Parah
Haftarah: Ezekiel 36:16 - 36:38 | Shabbat Parah

“Living at our Best”

Dear Friends,

In this week’s Torah portion, the children of Israel are waiting at the base of Mount Sinai for Moses to return from his encounter with God on the summit.  More than a month has gone by with no word.  Many become concerned that perhaps Moses has died and that God has abandoned them in the wilderness.  They demand that an idol be made for them to worship as they did in Egypt.  A midrash interpretive story tells how one leader of Israel stood against them reminding them that they had seen God’s miracles when they left Egypt and therefore, did not need a visible idol to comfort them.  The mob killed him.  Then they approached Aaron, who quickly gave in, requiring only that gold rings be given so that a ‘golden calf’ could be fashioned.  Jewish tradition pardons Aaron because he knew that he had to do something - anything - to stall and placate the mob until Moses returned.  Nevertheless, the Golden Calf affair is considered one of the darkest periods in biblical history because the people became impatient and frustrated.  Their lack of faith almost undid the Jewish people.

We are very much like our ancestors.  All too often, we grow impatient.  We become easily frustrated.  We lose our temper and we do things that we later regret with deep humiliation and shame.  We forget our values and we forsake our responsibility to act with honor and maturity.  We embarrass our families, our community, and ourselves.  You name the situation and circumstances; we have all experienced this... because we are all human.

Our Jewish tradition recognizes the opportunity for tshuvah - repentance for the times in our lives when we miss the mark and behave less than our best.  Our tradition accepts that we can make up for our misdeeds and become even better than we were before.  Our heritage understands that often the sins we commit become the learning opportunities through which we grow and mature.

The best path is to remain calm and not lose our patience in the first place.  But when we do, it is through tshuvah - true and sincere repentance and self-evaluation - that we redeem ourselves and continue our life journey towards living a blessed life filled with meaning, holiness, wisdom, awareness, good deeds, mentshlichkeit (being a mentsch – a person of dignity, honor, and righteousness) and love.

Zye a mentsch, everyone!  Be a mentsch!

Shabbat shalom.

Rabbi Eitan Weiner-Kaplow

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