Happy
Passover and Shabbat Shalom from Rabbi Eitan Weiner-Kaplow
March
30-31, 2018 / 15 Nisan 5778
Shabbat
Pesach Day 1
“The
Four Children”
Dear Friends,
Why do we mention the “Four Children” at our
Passover seders? What do they have to do
with the Passover story?
Just before we tell the story, the haggadah has us
stop for a moment to discuss the four children.
Here’s why. Four times in the
Torah we are instructed to tell our children about the Exodus, the paramount
Jewish story. From this our rabbinic
sages inferred that there must be four different kinds of children - each
asking a different question and each requiring a different answer. Thus, we consider the Wise child, the Wicked
child, the Simple child, and even child who does not know what to ask.
By contemplating the different types of learners at
our seder table, we can prepare ourselves to adjust our explanation of the
Passover story to suit their individual needs.
No only that, we might recognize these four archetypes within ourselves
and thus better understand what we need this year to better approach the
lessons of Passover.
Once we are open to our roles as educators for each
of our children, then we can embark on telling the story. For the story we tell on Passover eve is the
central and ultimate Jewish story. It is
our spiritual story, our national story, and the story that stands at the core of our Jewish
identity. “Once we were slaves and now
we are free…”
I wish you and your families a healthy, happy, and
joyous Passover!
Chag Same’ach and Shabbat Shalom,